In every business, especially in the business of Life, you can only achieve and maintain the top position, if you possess a great personality that every one looks up to. Here are 8 proven steps on how you can F.I.N.E. T.U.N.E. your Personality, the High 5ive way!
FACE YOUR FEARS: Fear is something that you run away from, but in reality, it is never after you. It seems very easy to turn a blind eye towards things that one fears- but that is the starting point of all the troubles in life. If you are a type of personality that easily gets intimidated by changes in your immediate environment, it is time to open up your eyes, turn back and Face your Fears. Facing fears means doing something that you have never done before because it made you uncomfortable. Moving out of your comfort zone and doing things that you dread the most is the first step to Fine Tune your personality. If you are scared of heights, go and do a bungee jump. If you are scared of water, go ahead and take a dive in the pool. Start asking other people about their fears in life, and you will realize that some of their fears actually mean nothing to you. This only proves the point that being fearful or courageous towards something is totally dependent upon the conditioning of the mind. When you know you fear something, figure out why you fear it in the first place. Does your prevalent fear exist because of some incident that happened to you in your past? Or is it because of something that you have never experienced in life? Whatever your fear is, know that it is just an illusion that your mind creates because of certain beliefs that you have inside of you. Change those beliefs and you will realize a new you!
INTROSPECT: In this fast paced life where we are continuously occupied with the happenings in our external world, examining your own personal thoughts and feelings is the second most important aspect of fine tuning your personality. Introspection is an art that you can become skilled at if you start giving enough attention to your inner self, rather than the world outside of you. Figuring out your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities and threats paves a clear way towards understanding the real you. A man’s personality is determined by how he tackles his weaknesses, enhances his strengths, leverages his opportunities & mitigates his threats. Introspection means going deeper inside your conscience and gaining more knowledge about your self, your purpose, your duties, your passions, your goals and visions. Introspection makes you become in-touch with the real you, making you realize your uniqueness as an individual being.
NURTURE YOUR SKILLS: Once you are done with introspection, and realize your true potential, Nurturing your skills becomes the third most important aspect of fine tuning your personality. The deeper you delve inside a domain, the more domination you will have in that skill. Enhancing your core competencies should be a life long mission, not a short term goal. Surgeons command the highest median salary of all careers- both in and out of health care- only because the job requires such specialized skills. They keep on updating themselves with the advancements in their particular fields, educating themselves their entire life, continuously nurturing their skills. Life in itself is a learning in process and thus every thing that you learn can become a skillset for you to be adept at. Acquiring multiple skill sets is something that you should aim at to further enhance your personality. You could be an author, a builder, a creative director, a digital marketing manager, an entrepreneur, a film maker, a growth hacker and a humanitarian all at the same time- All you need to do is Nurture your Skills to the very best of your capabilities.
EXPERIMENT: Once you become adept at a particular thing, experiment with your own skillset and figure out how you can find new ways to do the same thing, or use the same ways to create new things. Experimenting means observation, assessment, evaluation, appraisal, analysis, study. It’s a procedure undertaken to make a discovery, test a hypothesis or demonstrate a known fact. Experimenting with your skills means pushing your mind beyond the boundaries of your known globe, breaking the glass ceiling, and witnessing new waters and new life. Experiment daily with your thought processes and you will be amazed at what your mind is capable of creating. Completely Fine tuning your personality is just four steps away from this stage.
TIME MANAGEMENT: It is a known fact that each human being is time bound, that every one is gifted with a limited amount of time, and that no one is timeless. It is because of this fact that you hear almost everyone saying “Too much to do in too little time”. Time Management is that aspect of fine tuning your personality, which if mastered sincerely, will catapult your life into a living dream. Managing time means knowing your aims, setting your priorities, and beating your own deadlines. Factually, Time Management is one skill that we all are born with- because Time is the only tool we have from the very beginning of our life to use. Since everybody is a Time Manager in their life- how you manage your time defines how successful you become in your endeavors. After a 40 hour work week, there are those who spend their weekends lying on their couches watching FRIENDS for the fifth time; and then there are those who are hustling out on the streets, finalizing one contract after the other. What choices you make in your life directly reflects how good of a time manager you are.
UNDERSTANDING OTHERS: One of the major competencies that people with supreme personalities have is the ability to understand others and comprehending them correctly. Most of us are so consumed in putting across our point of views that we pay little to no heed to what others feel or have to say. There is a reason we have been given two ears and one mouth- so that we can listen more than we should talk. Understanding Others means undergoing a psychological process related to a person, situation, or message whereby one is able to think about it and use concepts to deal adequately. Understanding implies abilities and dispositions with respect to an object of knowledge that are sufficient to support intelligent behavior. Fine Tuning your personality with the ability of understanding others can become one of the biggest assets that you carry with you at all times.
NEVER SAY NEVER: You have read it many times before, and you are reading it again here. Naysayers will always be the first ones to quit and leave the ground, while the ones who Never Say Never end up wining the battle, turning out to be Victorious in any field they set their eyes on. Saying Yes or No to anything at the very first ask is nothing but an indicator of the kind of attitude that one carries with oneself. Those who say ‘Yes’ more often end up succeeding more than those who say ‘No’ more often. There could be many reasons for you to say ‘NO’- some could be ethical, while some could be emotional. Having a good grasp on your understanding abilities will empower you to be more practical and less emotional in life, thus making your less fearful of the things that make you uncomfortable, thereby saying ‘Yes’ more often than ‘No’.
ENJOY: This is the last and the most important aspect of fine tuning your personality because if you do not know how to have enjoyment in your life, no matter how many skill sets you acquire, or how much you understand others, your personality will always be incomplete in the eyes of others. Do not burden yourself up with all the troubles and roadblocks around you, and learn to Enjoy what you have. Being grateful for little things that you are blessed with in life is the first step to creating Joy in your heart, that leads to a significantly noticeable natural glow on your face, which in turn reflects the kind of personality you carry with yourself. Enjoying every living moment is the key to having a dominating & a dynamic personality that everyone is in awe of, and initiating unexplored paths for you to tread on. If you start to Enjoy all that you are blessed with, you will realize that the Universe will give you more in life for you to Enjoy. Like attracts Like, realize that and carve out a great personality by your own thoughts and actions.
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